Parenting Teenagers

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Parenting Teenagers

Parenting Teenagers

Along with teenage years come a lot of challenges. Don’t they say: “Bigger kids, bigger problems”? There is no doubt that parents can find themselves lost, not knowing what to do when their adorable child turns into a total stranger overnight. They don’t like the things they loved before, they want to be out with their friends, away from you, they dress differently, they speak differently, they are embarrassed by you, they have moods ranging from sad to happy, from calm to annoyed to angry in the space of an hour. You can’t help but wonder when did it happen? What went wrong? Why didn’t I do something sooner? What can I do now? Is it too late?

Relax and don’t give yourself a hard time. They are teenagers. Take time and think of you when you were a teenager. Not that different, were you?

There is never too late to re-connect with your teenager, when you are a strong picture in their Quality World. See what’s important to your teen and take an interest in their hobbies, even if you don’t understand them or don’t particularly enjoy them. Get your teen to explain you about their interests. Listen to them and keep communication open.

Make yourself available when they need you. It may worth stopping what you do in order to give them your full attention. They will feel valued and loved. They will feel important.

Teenagers need and want their parents to be there for them. Research and surveys tells us that teenagers would like to spend more time with their parents, than they presently do. You are a very strong influence in your teen’s life and it is up to you to keep it this way.  Arm yourself with a lot of patience, be kind and connect with your teenager. It’s never too late.

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